also can we stop pretending skinny shaming is on the same level as fat shaming? im against shaming people’s bodies no matter what and i think doing so is disgusting but thin bodies are still far more accepted and catered to and it’s important to acknowledge that
I was with her and him. He decided he wanted to pick me up. And he didn’t mean any of this in a cruel way. He just wanted to see if he could do it. Pick me up. And I’ve been trying to figure out why I panicked and said no. It’s partially because I’m fairly sure he couldn’t (and that would have been fucking embarrassing) but mostly I think I freaked because I don’t want to be a concept. To him, he’s just seeing if he can do it. To him, it’s about him. But it’s not. It’s about me. He wants to see if he can lift ME. He would never say that to her. Because obviously he can pick her up because she’s much smaller than me. He wants to see if he can lift me. And then I’m not a person anymore, I’m a thing. A fat, heavy thing to see if he can lift up. And fuck that.
I wish websites like ASOS Curve used bigger models because like, that floral playsuit looks amazing on a size 14 professional model but I got a stomach. I got an ass. I kind of want to know what I’m buying before I buy it.
It took me until I was 21 to buy a pair of shorts. It took me until almost 23 to actually wear them out in public. Feelin’ good today. Hey legs, you’re getting a tan this year!
Okay ladies, I’ve got a question for you. I need bra recommendations.
I wear plus size (I wear a size 44 bra band) but I’ve got fairly small tatas (I’m a B cup, and…if I’m honest, I could probably get away with some larger A cups). My problem is that most of the bras that are big enough to fit around me are designed for women with larger boobs. Retailers have gotten better; I never used to be able to find any bras in a B cup at all. But I don’t need all of the extra support. I just don’t need it. Bras end up having all this extra fabric/padding in the upper part of my boob that doesn’t fit right under shirts. Do any of you have this problem?
I’m looking for a bra with a bigger band but with more of a standard size look in the cups. Any suggestions?